Back in the day when I was analyzing my inspo album for the 20th time I realized I had a lot of Asian men in my album. I never noticed this before.

That could have been driven by the Pinterest algorithm, but these were some of my favorites:

I think they are all physically attractive, but with different looks. So what is really attracting me here? Now I realize, it’s not about their style or looks necessarily . My body was registering how those things felt. 

I think people would call the pictures a “vibe”, but thats just how we interpret the feeling with words. It’s really your nervous system recognizing signs of calm, steadiness and safety before you consciously understood why.